Top 10 Holiday Dating Tips

Being single during the holidays makes you feel like its you against the world. How can one cope? Here are the top ten tips:

1. Be leery of including a new date in family or work activities and parties. You aren't sure where this potential relationship is going to lead; you don't need to complicate it too early. If you do include them, be sure to introduce them at the party and include how you know them.
2. Don't be offended if they don’t include you in their holiday plans with family or work. If they do, carefully consider if you would be prepared to answer questions about your relationship or career. Include information, such as becoming a medical administrative assistant, but be careful to not brag too much about your life, keep it light.
3. Discuss if you will be exchanging gifts. If so, don't get an elaborate or expensive gift, keep it moderate. One of the best gifts I received was a DVD and box of popcorn; we enjoyed watching the movie and hanging out at home.
4. Do something holiday related with your date. Make sugar cookies at home, and decorate them together, or join a caroling group or start your own!
5. Holding hands leads to increased feelings of trust and attachment and reduced stress levels thanks to increased oxytocin levels.
6. Discuss any differences in beliefs. If you are of a different religion, or have different beliefs about Christmas discuss them. One should not be trying to alter your beliefs, but it’s ok to talk about them.
7. Be on time for dates! If you are running late be courteous and let your date know.
8. If you are feeling the holiday stress or blues, don't bring your date down. Let them know you are not up for going out at the moment that you have too many things on your plate. It’s ok to wait until the holidays are over and start dating in January. The person should understand and be able to wait a few weeks, if not then they aren't worth your time if they can't show compassion.
9. If you are single and ready to mingle, attend all the holiday parties you receive invites to. Dress the part, keep an open mind, and wear a beautiful smile. Happiness is contagious, so keep passing it around!
10. Moderate yourself if drinking. I would suggest limiting yourself and alternating with water. There is pros and cons to drinking, but I've seen too many people have too much to drink and become an embarrassing mess. Play it safe and stay professional.