It doesn't matter which stage of life you are in, committed relationship, single, or married. Everyone is in such a rush to get through life. Kids need to be picked up, your workload is never ending, and there is an endless amount of cleaning to get done at home. Everyone should go out on a date, even if it's alone. A real solo date isn't just relaxing on the couch with a bucket of ice cream and reruns of Sex in the City. Dress yourself up and take yourself out to a fun evening! And here's why!
- You can do everything you want! There is no consideration for what the other person likes because there is no other person. If you want just an appetizer and a cocktail for dinner that is perfectly fine! If you want to see that chick flick that is fine too!
- Get over your fear of being in public alone. You are independent and have loads of self-confidence, or at least you're working on it. This is a good step on building that confidence.
- You can have more fun alone! No one to hog up your bowl of popcorn or judging you as you enjoy that dessert.
- You can dress however you want! I love strutting around in my wild zebra print heels that my ex hated. I know I look hot with the smoky eye makeup and pink lipstick. Use your camera phone to check your own teeth after eating.
- Who is more interesting than yourself? The "I don't know" game is over! No one is there to read your mind of where to go or what to do. You can reflect upon what you really want, like how to become a fashion designer.
- You can people watch for amusement. I get lots of ideas and inspiration on fashion just by people watching on a Saturday night in the middle of town. I like watching couples interacting sometimes, it is more entertaining than reruns on TV I've already seen.